If you butt into a conversation where you don’t belong and side with some stranger you don’t even know in real life, then we’re going to have a problem. Perra gorda.
At some point you will realize that you have done too much for someone, that the only next possible step to do is to stop. Leave them alone. Walk away. it’s not like you’re giving up, and it’s not like you shouldn’t try. It’s just that you have to draw the line of determination from desperation. What is truly yours will eventually be yours, and what is not, no matter how hard you try, will never be.
Pride
Romans 12:3: “For I say, through the grace given unto me, to every man that is among you, not to think of him more highly than he ought to think; but to think soberly, according as God halt dealt to every man the measure of faith.”